We know, estate planning isn’t most individuals’ favorite topic of discussion. But we cannot reiterate enough how important this step is in planning for your future. Choosing a decision maker long before you will ever need one is just as important as saving for retirement long before you hit 60. But what is a medical decision-maker (sometimes called a Power of Attorney) and how do you choose?
A medical decision maker can be part of a Living Will and Power of Attorney. To learn about planning your future medical care, check out our free eBook here.
Why is Choosing a Decision Maker Important?
The simple answer is so that someone you trust can make decisions on your behalf should you not be able to make decisions on your own. They can look at your medical records, speak with your doctors, and make decisions about any treatment on your behalf. There are many reasons to legally put someone in this role. It’s best to make these decisions now so your family doesn’t have to worry about it later on or during an emergency.
What to Consider When Selecting a Legal Decision Maker?
When you select this individual, there are many things you should consider first. To start with, they must be at least 18 years old and cannot be a current member of your healthcare team, such as a doctor or nurse. Most people choose a parent, sibling, child, spouse, or close friend. That is perfectly okay, but there are a few additional questions to consider:
- Do you trust this person to speak for you?
- Do you trust this person’s judgment?
- Is this person willing to make decisions for you?
- Is this individual comfortable making quick decisions?
- Will this person comfortable asking questions of authority figures (like doctors)?
- Would this person’s connection to you get in the way of making clear decisions on your behalf without emotion?
- Will this person be easily accessible in the event of an emergency?
- Are you comfortable having tough conversations with this person?
What Are the Responsibilities of a Decision Maker?
Now that you’ve picked who you want your decision-maker to be and asked yourself the important questions, what are they supposed to do?
Well, nothing yet.
Ultimately, they will speak for you during medical emergencies and times when you may not be able to speak for yourself. Which means they must understand all of your wishes. This means for spiritual, medical, and quality of life specifics. No one else may access your medical records without written permission.
When to Choose a Decision Maker
This isn’t just something for seniors or retirees, but something that should be included with any adult with a living will. It is generally recommended to choose a medical decision maker after a person turns 18 when making a living will.
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